You are what your deep driving desire is. As your desire is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny. (Brihadnarayana Upanishad)
As long as we are colored by the material modes of goodness, passion and ignorance, the question of “What do I want?” will be there. When one has actually become purified and is situated on the platform of BRAHMABHUTA, the question will be “What does my spiritual master and Krishna want?” and one becomes absorbed in that thought exclusively.
Prabhupada said, “As soon as one accepts a spiritual master, one has nothing more to think about.”